Personal Rejection Power

Basically there are two BIG fears around women:

The fear of approaching women, and the fear of being rejected by women.

And while we often mix the two up together, they are actually different.

The reason why “rejection” hurts so much is because you take it personally.

If you don’t take it personally, it won’t hurt.

If you take it for what it is, it doesn’t matter.

Only if you make a big thing out of it, and draw all kinds of conclusions (like: “Oh, I’m not worthy, I’m too ugly, I’m too stupid, lalala”) will she have power over you.

Never let her have power over you. The secret of being a man is holding your power.

Approach Anxiety: The Diamond Girl

A lot of guys treat women like diamonds. They treat them that way both in the real world, and in their own mind.

And it’s doing them no good.

Because when something is so precious, it can make you careful and worrysome that you might “lose it”.

And then you’ll put her on a pedestal and just nod your head and accept all the bullshit that she gives you.

(And believe me – women will give you bullshit. Not necessarily because they’re messed up, but because they want to TEST you: are you a man that knows how to handle a woman’s BS?)

So take on an abundance mindset when it comes to women.

And an abundance mindset is really a much more realistic attitude towards women than a scarcity mindset.

Because the world’s population is somewhere around 6.7 billion people now. And about half of them are women.

There are more women on this earth than you could possibly even look at. There are even more HOT women on this earth than you could look at all your life.

So don’t be afraid to let go of one of them. Don’t be afraid to screw up your chances with her. She’s not a once-in-a-lifetime-opportunity. She is just one of many, and you can check her out to see if she’s worth more of your time and attention.

It’s stuff like this that you need to know if you want to get good with girls.