Finding A Girlfriend

Finding a girlfriend can be a real challenge. But it can also be a fun adventure. I understand you seriously want (and maybe even feel like you need) a girlfriend, but that doesn’t mean having fun is not part of the package. In fact, it will be a lot easier to find a girl that likes you if you have fun along the way. Because girls like to be around guys that are happy and can give them a good time.

Don’t worry if you get nervous or insecure around attractive girls, or if you don’t know how to approach them, what to say to them, where to meet them, how to behave, how to dress, etc. There are some things that you have to know – and you can learn them, it’s not rocket science. In fact, you already know them, they are hardwired into your brain – it’s just that there’s a lot of other stuff on your mind that’s preventing you from seeing it clearly.

As I said – there are things you need to know – but most of the stuff is really up to you and what type of guy you are. It’s better to be yourself than trying to act like somebody else. If you are a nerdy geek, then by all means don’t try to be a cool surfer dude. There are lots of nerdy geeks who have stunning girlfriends. Because they are the way they are, and they’re cool about it. Girls like confidence.

If you have a confidence issue – you need to work on that. But it’s actually quiet easy to become more confident with women. And there are a couple of things that you need to know when it comes to attracting women to you. It’s not about pick up lines, or even flirting techniques so much. It’s about… we’ll get to that later.

Some guys settle with girls that they don’t really like… just so that they “have a girlfriend”. That’s really not what you want to do, because it’s not gonna make you happy, and it’s not gonna make her happy either. If you think “being a single” is something wrong, then relax about that. Being a single means you still have freedom to choose and look around, and that’s a great thing. You got that big adventure still in front of you of finding a girlfriend and falling in love again. Don’t hook up with a girl you don’t really care about. You don’t have to, if you know how to attract girls.

And finding a girlfriend is not about buying a girl drinks, or making her compliments or this or that. (Oftentimes these things can absolutely kill your chances to make a woman interested in you).

So I told you that it’s not about pick up lines or flirting techniques, compliments and buying drinks. It’s about being perceived as desirable, it’s about “being a rare catch” – if she realizes that she won’t have a chance to find a man like you, then SHE will be the one trying to get you, and you can lean back and enjoy the game. That’s a completely different story than you trying to impress her or trying to keep her interest in you alive. And again, when I talk about creating the perception of being desirable, I don’t mean you need to fake anything. You just need to know how to do it.


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