The general consensus is that young women are sexier, and in many ways that is true. But older women have their advantages in many ways too, and specially women dating younger man can often be quiet an experience.
(Older women tend to know what they want and like a lot more clearly than most younger chicks. And when they date a younger man, they might just want to have a good, adventurous time. They also are more experienced sexually, and less inhibited than younger women.)
If you never have dated an older women, then I think it’s definitely something worth trying (specially if you already have dated lots of young women). It’s just a different experience, and there will be things that you like more, and things that you like less, but you might not be aware of them now. This knowledge will stay with you for any relationship in the future, and it’s very valuable.
There are all kinds of reasons why men like to date older women, but I think the real reason is simply: taste and variety. Some days I prefer chocolate ice, some days I prefer a coconut.
But dating older women is different – different rules apply. One of the most important things is that older women like compliments even more than younger women. It is true that older women are more confident than younger women in most cases, but that does not mean that they are free of all insecurities. They still (secretly) compare themselves to other women, and when they date a younger man, then they will compare themselves specially to younger women. So compliment everything about her appearance and her looks that you like about her. Make her feel appreciated and desirable.
Also – be yourself. Don’t try to act more mature than you behave when you go on a date with a younger women. Keep in mind that the older women dates you because she likes a younger man, and she probably likes something about your lack of experience (compared to men who are older than you).
But absolutely do not act as if she (I can’t believe I’m about to say this, but it’s the clearest way to put it) is your mother. Don’t ask her for advice on a thousand things – you are not a student, you are a partner, even if you are younger. If she shares advice to you, listen to it attentively, but don’t follow it as if it was an order, and have the confidence to question it.
Attracting an older woman pretty much works the same way as attracting a younger women, although it can actually be more challenging and take more skills if she isn’t already attracted to you. Older women see through most of the “male maneuvers”, so you will need to do them more elegantly (at least if she has any style at all…). But when older women are seeking younger men, that’s a lot easier.
Older Female Celebrity Women Dating Younger Men
There are many popular examples of older women who date younger men – Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubrey, Geena Davis and Reza Jarrahy (he is 15 years younger), Joan Collins and Percy Gibson, Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins, Julianne Moore and Bart Freundlich or Linda Hogan and Charlie Hill (Charlie is 29! years younger, that’s freaking mad).
There’s even a internet dating site only for young men who want to date older women (or older women who want to date younger men).