Before we’re going into pick-up lines, it’s important that you realize that pick-up lines don’t work on their own. Even the best pick-up line in the world will not get you anywhere with the girls if you don’t know how to use it.
So what does that mean?
Pick-up lines have their place, they can help you to be cool and funny and attractive to girls – but only if your body language, your voice tone, your facial expressions are in check.
You see, there are a lot of guys who have no clue whatsoever about body language and all these things. And they believe that a pick-up line is kind of like a magic word to make a woman spread her legs.
You remember that story about Ali Baba from 1001 Arabian Nights? “Open Sesame!”.
Well, a lot of guys seem to think that this is how it works.
Much more important than spending your time trying to find a pick-up line that you can use on the girls is to master body language and nonverbal communication.
You remember in school, there was probably a really cool guy, that had all these cool lines. And that’s what made us think that it’s the lines that make him cool.
But pretty much everything that the cool guy said was cool (at least to the girls) – because of the way he said it!
When you have the right body language, the right tone of voice, the right facial expressions, then it pretty much is irrelevant which words you use – pretty much everything will work it’s magic on the girls.
On the other hand, even if you have the best pick-up line in the world, but say it sounding insecure or goofy, well, it will only make the girls raise an eyebrow and think you’re a weirdo.
Did you know that about 93% of human communication is being done nonverbal? The signals that you give with your body, your face and your tone of voice are 93% of the message that the other person gets. The words that you use are only 7% of the message.
There’s a good reason for that – it’s easy to lie with words, but it’s a lot more difficult to lie with body language and voicetone and facial expressions. So we human beings learned to attach more meaning to these parts of our communication.
What’s more – women are a lot better at reading body language than men are. In fact, there are scientific studies that suggest that women are about 10 times better than men at interpreting body language. They pick up the smallest signals and the slightest cues and are often able to conclude what they mean in a very accurate way – and most men don’t even realize what’s going on.
(It’s not that men are dumb – we’re just not good at interpreting nonverbal communication. However, we do have advantages over girls in other ways, and we can use these advantages to make them feel irrationally attracted towards us and seduce them).
So pick up lines are cool and fun – but master body language first, so that when you have the pick-up lines, you know how to use them.