Guys still send me emails because they’re puzzled why women so often feel irrationally attracted to jerks.
Why the don’t take the nice guy that’s good for them, but instead let the bad guy abuse them, cheat on them and treat them badly.
Now, that’s a behavior that’s not so uncommon at all.
Yes, it’s irrational. It doesn’t make sense logically.
But it’s not uncommon.
Just look at yourself:
Do you always eat what’s best for you? What’s healthy?
Or do you also sometimes eat things that are bad for you, but they are so tasty?
We all know that sugar is bad.
Yet, products that contain sugar (or artificial sweeteners) are often the ones that have the highest margins (because people value it highly, they are willing to pay for it), and that sell the largest volume (people want a lot of it).
Heck, I love ice-cream.
Not eating ice-cream would be good for me. And eating ice-cream is surely bad for my health, not just for me teeth.
But I get so much enjoyment out of it, that I do it despite my better knowledge.
Well… bad guys are kind of like ice-cream for hot girls.
Not because they’re bad, but because they’re cool in a way that’s very attractive to hot girls.