Attracing Girls Is Scary?

I understand that it can feel scary for a man to approach a hot woman.

Heck, for the first twentysomething years of my life, it scared the crap out of me.

But you just gotta get over it. I’m serious. You just gotta get over it.

In a way, it’s natural selection at work.

Nature, or god, or whatever higher power you believe in, wants good qualities to be passed on, and bad qualities to fade out.

Now, courage is a good quality.

And if you don’t have the courage to walk up to a girl and make her feel attraction towards you, then you have the quality of shyness and social fear. And those are negative things.

And you’re basically accepting that you’re not worthy of that girl.

Someone else, who has more courage, is worthy of her.

If you were a girl – wouldn’t you want a man that can actually express what he wants? And then go and get it?

Instead of a man that’s too afraid to even express his wishes?

If this is an issue for you, then you need to fix it before you even think about pick up lines.

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